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Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Strange dream

Haha. Okay.

Last night I had a dream that I was practising choreography for a concert. It wasn't any song, though...I was doing a Lee Hyori song and the crowd totally LOVED me!!
Anyway...After that The actual LEE HYORI came in, started acting like a total princess, and did the show for me and....somehow gave me HIV...huh. Not such a nice ending. AND that was WITHOUT a drink. haha. I love you, Hyori.
There's more Hyori where that came from!
some of my favourite Hyori songs!
U-go girl
Chitty Chitty Bang Bang
Mr. Big
Sway

Friday, September 2, 2011

Hugs

I personally think that hugs say a lot. But we're girls...we overanalyze everything!
Haha. What I've learned from experience is that when a guy gives me a one-armed hug, he's kinda emotionally unattached and sometimes awkward. They kinda hug to get it over with. Some of these guys are uncomfortable even hugging their girlfriends! Don't worry..It's not you...it's them.
Pats on the back mean that the guy thinks of you in a strictly platonic way. Kinda like one of the guys. It's warm and yet too rough to be considered romantic.
Hugs of affection are usually when his hands are high up near the shoulders and your back is usually rubbed rather than patted or otherwise. But affection doesn't mean romantic! Which is why when you recieve a hug of comfort, it usually includes a little rub.
Romantic hugs are obviously the best. You will always know those. The ones that are really long and the guy kinda rests his head on top of yours or in the crook of your neck. It feels as if he's taking his time or breathing you in. If he bends down it's because he wants to feel your arms around him as well. Be aware of the placement of the hands. This is not me talking, but it's proven that the lower his hands are placed on your back, the more romantically or sexually he thinks of you. So if it's just above your butt, watch out!
You can find out more about this by doing research on things like body language. It's actually kind of interesting. Have a look!

Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Vulnerable women...Questions and answers..

Why do men love vulnerable women?
Isnt it morally wrong to take advantage of a vulnerable person? Are they doing it to be knight in shining armor or easier to bend their mind? Why????

Some said....

1. They're less of a threat.
Men need to feel needed.
They're easier to control.

2.It's because if you're looking to get laid, it's easier, and if you're looking for a relationship it's still easier. Vulnerable people usually have low self-esteem, and in the short-run that's easier to handle.



Do men feel more attracted to vulnerable women?

Some said...

1.Easy target, sorry to be blunt. I actually can't stand vulnerable gals, I like it if a gal can stand up to me and tell me I'm wrong. Someone to stick to her convictions.

2.Some men want women who need them. If a man is insecure, he wants a woman that he knows will cling to him, who is insecure also, so he knows she'll stay with him. It doesnt always mean he'll control her. It could just mean
A. He wants someone who he knows won't leave him because she needs him..
B. He wants to help her. Often, he'll know she'll cling to him, and he'll help her gain confidence.

3. OMG that's SO true! I've been very vulnerable lately for some personal reason, which is quite obvious to others and funnily enough I find that more guys are attracted to me now than before. They also find it easier to approach me now.


Are dominant men attracted to vulnerable women?

Of course. A dominant man is not going to be attracted to a strong, self assured woman. He wants a submissive woman he can bend to his will.

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Korean soap opers: my princess

http://www.mysoju.com/korean-drama/my-princess/

Signs he likes me. YAY!

Romantic hug : he hugged me like this!
Disclaimer:I do not own these pictures.

Romantic hug: We hugged like this! Only his hands were lower...hhmmm..
Disclaimer: I do not own these pictures.
What they said....


I personally think that hugs say a lot. But we're girls...we overanalyze everything!
Haha. What I've learned from experience is that when a guy gives me a one-armed hug, he's kinda emotionally unattached and sometimes awkward. They kinda hug to get it over with. Some of these guys are uncomfortable even hugging their girlfriends! Don't worry..It's not you...it's them.
1-Pats on the back mean that the guy thinks of you in a strictly platonic way. Kinda like one of the guys. It's warm and yet too rough to be considered romantic.
Hugs of affection are usually when his hands are high up near the shoulders and your back is usually rubbed rather than patted or otherwise. But affection doesn't mean romantic! Which is why when you recieve a hug of comfort, it usually includes a little rub.
2-Romantic hugs are obviously the best. You will always know those. The ones that are really long and the guy kinda rests his head on top of yours or in the crook of your neck. It feels as if he's taking his time or breathing you in. If he bends down it's because he wants to feel your arms around him as well. Be aware of the placement of the hands. This is not me talking, but it's proven that the lower his hands are placed on your back, the more romantically or sexually he thinks of you. So if it's just above your butt, watch out!
You can find out more about this by doing research on things like body language. It's actually kind of interesting. Have a look!

No, that wasn't sarcasm.
I think that one-handed hugs mean little to people or they are preoccupied.
Two-handed hugs have many meanings:
If the guys hands are up higher near the shoulder it means its friendly.
If the guys hands are lower it could mean something sexual.
The tighter the hug the more it means.
The longer the hug, the greater chance of something more happening.


I don't think that a hug can always tell how a guy feels about a girl but sometimes it might be a good hint. A pat on the back sounds friendly. A one handed hug does too but if the guy keeps his arm around a girl for awhile then he could be trying to hold onto her while not making it awkward as a long regular hug. Also I'd think that if a guy holds onto a girl tighter or longer while hugging then he probably has more feelings towards her than just a friendship unless he's trying to comfort her.

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