Francis Lai/ Peter Kater

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Awesome Music!

Hour of power

http://www.hourofpower.org/global/canada/watch.php?tid=watch

Hugs

I personally think that hugs say a lot. But we're girls...we overanalyze everything!
Haha. What I've learned from experience is that when a guy gives me a one-armed hug, he's kinda emotionally unattached and sometimes awkward. They kinda hug to get it over with. Some of these guys are uncomfortable even hugging their girlfriends! Don't worry..It's not you...it's them.
Pats on the back mean that the guy thinks of you in a strictly platonic way. Kinda like one of the guys. It's warm and yet too rough to be considered romantic.
Hugs of affection are usually when his hands are high up near the shoulders and your back is usually rubbed rather than patted or otherwise. But affection doesn't mean romantic! Which is why when you recieve a hug of comfort, it usually includes a little rub.
Romantic hugs are obviously the best. You will always know those. The ones that are really long and the guy kinda rests his head on top of yours or in the crook of your neck. It feels as if he's taking his time or breathing you in. If he bends down it's because he wants to feel your arms around him as well. Be aware of the placement of the hands. This is not me talking, but it's proven that the lower his hands are placed on your back, the more romantically or sexually he thinks of you. So if it's just above your butt, watch out!
You can find out more about this by doing research on things like body language. It's actually kind of interesting. Have a look!

Vulnerable women...Questions and answers..

Why do men love vulnerable women?
Isnt it morally wrong to take advantage of a vulnerable person? Are they doing it to be knight in shining armor or easier to bend their mind? Why????

Some said....

1. They're less of a threat.
Men need to feel needed.
They're easier to control.

2.It's because if you're looking to get laid, it's easier, and if you're looking for a relationship it's still easier. Vulnerable people usually have low self-esteem, and in the short-run that's easier to handle.



Do men feel more attracted to vulnerable women?

Some said...

1.Easy target, sorry to be blunt. I actually can't stand vulnerable gals, I like it if a gal can stand up to me and tell me I'm wrong. Someone to stick to her convictions.

2.Some men want women who need them. If a man is insecure, he wants a woman that he knows will cling to him, who is insecure also, so he knows she'll stay with him. It doesnt always mean he'll control her. It could just mean
A. He wants someone who he knows won't leave him because she needs him..
B. He wants to help her. Often, he'll know she'll cling to him, and he'll help her gain confidence.

3. OMG that's SO true! I've been very vulnerable lately for some personal reason, which is quite obvious to others and funnily enough I find that more guys are attracted to me now than before. They also find it easier to approach me now.


Are dominant men attracted to vulnerable women?

Of course. A dominant man is not going to be attracted to a strong, self assured woman. He wants a submissive woman he can bend to his will.

Korean soap opers: my princess

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Signs he likes me. YAY!

Romantic hug : he hugged me like this!
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Romantic hug: We hugged like this! Only his hands were lower...hhmmm..
Disclaimer: I do not own these pictures.

What they said....


I personally think that hugs say a lot. But we're girls...we overanalyze everything!
Haha. What I've learned from experience is that when a guy gives me a one-armed hug, he's kinda emotionally unattached and sometimes awkward. They kinda hug to get it over with. Some of these guys are uncomfortable even hugging their girlfriends! Don't worry..It's not you...it's them.
1-Pats on the back mean that the guy thinks of you in a strictly platonic way. Kinda like one of the guys. It's warm and yet too rough to be considered romantic.
Hugs of affection are usually when his hands are high up near the shoulders and your back is usually rubbed rather than patted or otherwise. But affection doesn't mean romantic! Which is why when you recieve a hug of comfort, it usually includes a little rub.
2-Romantic hugs are obviously the best. You will always know those. The ones that are really long and the guy kinda rests his head on top of yours or in the crook of your neck. It feels as if he's taking his time or breathing you in. If he bends down it's because he wants to feel your arms around him as well. Be aware of the placement of the hands. This is not me talking, but it's proven that the lower his hands are placed on your back, the more romantically or sexually he thinks of you. So if it's just above your butt, watch out!
You can find out more about this by doing research on things like body language. It's actually kind of interesting. Have a look!

No, that wasn't sarcasm.
I think that one-handed hugs mean little to people or they are preoccupied.
Two-handed hugs have many meanings:
If the guys hands are up higher near the shoulder it means its friendly.
If the guys hands are lower it could mean something sexual.
The tighter the hug the more it means.
The longer the hug, the greater chance of something more happening.


I don't think that a hug can always tell how a guy feels about a girl but sometimes it might be a good hint. A pat on the back sounds friendly. A one handed hug does too but if the guy keeps his arm around a girl for awhile then he could be trying to hold onto her while not making it awkward as a long regular hug. Also I'd think that if a guy holds onto a girl tighter or longer while hugging then he probably has more feelings towards her than just a friendship unless he's trying to comfort her.

your love- chapters 6,7,9

Thursday July 8, 2010

Your love

book 1 chapt. 6,7,9

 chapter 6 of book one: Truth

 There weren't any words to describe the hurt you feel when you've been betrayed. deceived.

 Anger. Dejection. Regret.

  

 Then again,"Zahira" was a liar.

 I didn't know who to believ. Zahira told me one thing, another told me different.

She told me that he got a GIRL PREGNANT. She linked herself to him so he couldn't be with me.

 Though I've found out his secrets, I still wanted him so. And he deceived me, but I coudn't let him go.

I hadn't realized how upset I had been until I talked to my mother. She told me I was sleep-walking the other night. Was there no one at all to turn to? I looked up at the miserable sky. and cried, just as David in the bible had:

Somebody, please help me.Is there a god  I can depend on? Show me you are there so I won't become bad.

The wind blew as I went on:

I don't mean to be bad when I am. Please, just don't let me be broken again--bring him back here with me. Please.

  

And I waited for my response.

  

 (notes/ comments:) ummm whoa! the writing is so small it barely takes up a page!!! It's so much bigger on lined paper...) 

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Saturday, July 10, 2010

Chapter7

Two days after waiting desperately for an answer, my love returned.

He had been looking for me, I knew.

Suddenly it didn't matter what kept us apart, I knew. God was there. He brought him back to me, for a while at least.

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It was like I blinked and he disappeared. I hoped and prayed for his return, and the days I've waited felt like eternity.

I sensed he'd be back, then I'd ask him the truth-- the full of it.

It had been painful at times to remember us before that first disappearance. We were really something. I had loved and hurt so many times, so hard, that one day it might kill me.

Every reason I loved him kept me waiting. Gentle, sweet, warm, Guillaume...

I will wait for you..

  

(comments:) umm...maybe on paper I write too big???

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July 23-25, 2010

Chapter 9

He never did come back.

Getting over him sounded easier than it felt, but I coun't let this go on any longer. I couldn't let every guy crush me.

But I did.

I have tried my very best to get over him week after week.

Finally my heart grew stronger-- a little, but still stronger. It hurt to try and forget the love I felt, but I endured it.

Then I started dreaming about him. My greatest fear was finding out that he was as bad as Zahira had said.

Two nights in a row I've had dreams about him. I knew he wasn't coming back-- I was sure he had a new life, and a new love. He moved on, so I coudn't I?

Because I loved him.

I tried to keep my thoughts at "He's not here, not coming back." Not a happy thought, but it kept me from extreme disappointment.

One thing I wanted to forget was pain.

"What happened to Guillaume?" My mother asked me, and it hurt me-- more than i can say-- to hear his name.

"He's gone." I answered. I was smiling, trying to hide behind my voice, stop myself from crying.

The truthwas, I didn't know where he was. How his name triggered sudden heaviness so deep, I couldn't stand the silence at night. I couldn't sleep.

He suddenly disappeared, and left me here with these unbearable people. In this God-forsaken place.

God left me with no father, and no man to love me.

He said he loved me, and I believed him. I was stupid. I was...broken, empty. How I pay for such fragility. Such folly. My heart  shattered.

Life goes on. a broken heart heals. Like every wound, there's a scar, a memory, but it fades away eventually.